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At 12:13pm on October 20, 2008, Dr. Blair W. Barone said…
hi there -

nice to hear from you.........yes, i am a 'holistic" child psychologist. i even run the holistic moms chapter of palm beach..started the one in broward.....when i work with kids, i focus on their mind-body-spirit...initally when families seek me out it is either for mind or spirit issues (divorce related mood/behavioral problems)........i address those in the ways that you and i both would.........then i get into the more physical nutrition because of the strong connection between food and and about neuro nutrition.....and also, if families are interested, a greener home.......and of course, more holistic parenting issues.......thats kind of it in a nutshell...would be happy to talk more..........thanks for connecting.
At 12:25pm on September 22, 2008, Susan Allan said…
Dear Ken,

Thank you for your message; if you have a paragraph or two you owuld enjoy having me send to my 3,000 opt-in list, please send it to me and my request is "very peaceful " please! Best, Susan
At 11:52am on September 22, 2008, Rosalind Sedacca, CCT said…
Hi Ken:

Just checked out your photos in the mountains. Can understand why you love being there!

At 5:44am on September 12, 2008, Nadia Thonnard said…
ps: love the cabin by the way!!! :-)
At 5:44am on September 12, 2008, Nadia Thonnard said…
Hi Kenneth, parenting after divorce, for me, is all about redefining one's values really. In my marriage, for instance, their father was not involved and because he was a "man-child" I often neglected my children over my husband. After my divorce it was a wake up call for me that I brought these children into this world and I had to make sure that I attended to their needs. They had to come first of course! I have such a better relationship with them now and they are reassured that they are safe and cared for, which is normal. I disagree with the concept that one should put their relationship first and then the children, because if two parents are emotionally intelligent they don't have to come first over their children, they will parent together responsibly and it's not either then about putting children first. The children will be harmoniously integrated in the family life. As for after divorce it is essential that parents come to this awareness that children are not toys to play with but real people whom we have a responsibility to care for, no matter the circumstances. Do I make sense? Nadia
At 1:28pm on September 10, 2008, Nadia Thonnard said…
Hi, and thanks for adding me to your friend, :-) Nadia
At 3:00pm on August 14, 2008, Belinda Rachman, Esq. said…
I did est as a young woman and have led a life I would not have otherwise had. Out of that training I got at an early age that I can manifest anything out of pure intention (thus the 100% success rate with over 200 couples). Everything I am is related to est which became Landmark. I did the curriculum for living about 5 years ago and out of that I walked away from my adversarial practice and have done nothing but mediation since that time. If I ever have a chance to thank Warner Erhard for creating est, I will!!!!!
At 10:19pm on August 11, 2008, Cynthia Tiano, Esq. said…
Gorgeous photos! Perfect place for a holistic mediation!

At 10:02am on July 24, 2008, Cindy Harari said…
Welcome to Peaceful Divorce!
At 11:29pm on July 23, 2008, Karen Walker said…
Aloha Kenny

Yes I am in Canada but the spirit of Aloha is Universal, so I wish it to you.

At 8:47pm on July 23, 2008, Cynthia Tiano, Esq. said…
Kenneth -

Thank you so much for your heartfelt reply to our Forum question. It sure makes you think, doesn't it?

We are really grateful to have you here, as a part of this important Peaceful Divorce movement.

At 8:04pm on July 23, 2008, Karen Walker said…
Aloha Kenneth


At 9:37am on July 23, 2008, Cynthia Tiano, Esq. said…
Kenneth -

I would love for you to answer our Forum question, "Which Piece of the Peaceful Divorce Puzzle Do You Have?" Food for thought!

At 9:39pm on July 22, 2008, Cynthia Tiano, Esq. said…
Hi Kenneth -

Welcome to Peaceful Divorce! Thank you for joining us here. Please feel free to join in the conversation.

Let me know if I may help you in any way!

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