Peaceful Divorce

In a divorce, both parties have many decisions to make. Whether it’s through mediation or a collaborative approach to divorce, these items are important to keep in mind:

1. Asset and liability division

  • How will assets be divided?
  • How much is your home worth?
  • Will you continue to co-own the home and sell it in the future?
  • Does there need to be a buy-out of a share of the home’s equity?
  • What is the time frame for removing a name from the mortgage?
  • How will the household bills be paid until one person moves out?
  • How will debts be divided? If a debt is in both names, who will pay it?
  • Is it possible to remove either party’s name from a joint account?
  • If someone takes more assets, should they take more debts?
  • Do retirement plans need to be equalized?
  • Are there other businesses that need to be valued or divided?
  • Is money owed from one party to the other, because of overall asset and liability division or equalization?

2. Child support

  • What is the guideline for child support in your state?
  • Should a different amount of child support be paid voluntarily?
  • In addition to child support, should other child-related costs be divided?


3. Parenting plan

  • What is the general parenting schedule?
  • What is the holiday/vacation schedule?
  • Are there other schedules or provisions that need to be included?


4. Alimony/spousal support

  • Is spousal support appropriate in this case?
  • How long would spousal support get paid?
  • How much will spousal support be?
  • Will spousal support decrease at some point in the future?
  • What if one party gives more assets instead of spousal support?


5. Decision-making

  • Will you work together to make major decisions on behalf of the children?
  • Will one parent be responsible for making those decisions?
  • Are there certain issues that are more important to one parent than the other?


6. Health insurance

  • Who is going to provide health insurance for the children?
  • How much will each parent pay for unreimbursed medical expenses?
  • Dependent exemption - who will claim the children for tax purposes?


7. Other

  • Should language be included regarding children’s college tuition?
  • How will personal property be divided?


Whether through mediation or a collaborative approach, divorce is stressful. Being aware of potential stumbling blocks will give parties their best chance at a successful divorce. Contact me today to help find answers to your questions.

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