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Springtime in the Rockies and Your Relationships

“Partly Cloudy, Windy, Sun Mixed with Occasional Snow Showers”: Springtime in the Rockies & Your Relationships

We had snow the first weekend in April, driving, blinding, Colorado blizzard-type snow. The interstate north of us was closed, and cars were off the roads all over the place. I drive out to a local dairy on Saturdays to pick up our weekly dairy order, and could hardly see the road in some places; the wind was blowing snow so badly.

Two days later, it was warm,… Continue

Added by Debra Gordy MS MRET on April 28, 2009 at 11:58pm — No Comments

Making Love Last a Lifetime!

Are You Searching for the Secrets to a Failure-free Marriage?

Then you are invited to subscribe to Creating Joy! The Relationship E-newsletter. This FREE monthly e-newsletter brings readers practical Transformational self-care tips, and timely inspiration and guidance. As a Special Bonus, all subscribers will receive my Free Report, THE Question that Will Transform Your Relationship!

The recent 2009 Creating Joy! Readers’ Survey is now complete. The… Continue

Added by Debra Gordy MS MRET on February 9, 2009 at 11:45pm — No Comments

Where do You Want More Joy in 2009?

Creating Joy! The Relationship E-newsletter is entering its fourth year, and readers are invited to help me write it this year!

While I enjoy sharing with readers the Transformational insights, inspiration and practical self-help tips that I feel inspired to share each month – this monthly e-newsletter is for you.

My heartfelt desire has always been and continues to be, to help my readers:

• Attract your special someone

• Create or strengthen… Continue

Added by Debra Gordy MS MRET on January 17, 2009 at 9:04pm — No Comments

Three Tips for Keeping your Sanity & Serenity when interacting with your Ex during the Most Wonderful Time of the Year

©2008 Debra Gordy. All Rights Reserved.

I remember it well – my first Christmas after my divorce from my children’s dad. I dreaded it coming. Not only were my two young daughters going to be with their father that first Christmas, I was going to have to see him at school and family events.

I worried. I stressed. I fussed.

I tried to figure out some way to get out of attending those family gatherings. For my children’s sake, I couldn’t. I always… Continue

Added by Debra Gordy MS MRET on December 5, 2008 at 11:00am — 1 Comment

"The NUMBER ONE Secret to Helping Your Kids Get through Your Divorce" Teleseminar

Do you know the NUMBER ONE factor that can help your children get through your divorce with the least problems and most success in adjustment?

It is NOT what you probably think!

In this reassuring, hope-filled, one-hour teleseminar, you will learn:

1) What the NUMBER ONE top priority is, that when consistently attended to, helps your children get through your divorce with the least problems, and most successful adjustment to the changes in their… Continue

Added by Debra Gordy MS MRET on July 1, 2008 at 10:26pm — 1 Comment

Cinderella Wisdom and Creating Financial Abundance Teleclasses in June

I am hostessing two teleclasses this month, and the first one is my GIFT in honor of "bride's month"! I would love to invite all readers and members of Peaceful Divorce to join me.

Teleclass 1: Cinderella Wisdom!

Date: June 12 , 2008

Time: 7:00 – 8: 30 pm MT

Cost: FREE, my gift to you in honor of

"Bride's Month".

Cinderella Wisdom Teleclass

Do you struggle with conflict or… Continue

Added by Debra Gordy MS MRET on June 4, 2008 at 6:30pm — No Comments

The Toughest Question Posed by Women Considering Divorce

As a Transformational Relationship Therapist specializing in assisting divorced and divorcing women to heal from their divorce, people ask me lots of tough questions. The toughest question by far that I am asked is: "Should I stay or should I go?"

Wow! So much is behind that question! This is the topic of the June issue of my ezine, Creating Joy! This monthly ezine is FREE, and only goes to subscribers, so that it is welcome and valued by those who read it.

I would… Continue

Added by Debra Gordy MS MRET on June 4, 2008 at 6:11pm — No Comments

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What Is a Caucus?

One of the guiding values in mediation and collaborative law is transparency. It comes with the territory when one is trying to establish trust with two different parties. Sometimes an issue may arise that one party may wish not to discuss in front of the other. If they both agree, separate meetings may take place. These meetings are called caucuses.Caucuses can be…See More
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Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

How Important Is the Budget in Divorce Planning?

I think everyone’s least favorite word is BUDGET. Why don’t we want to hear that word? Think about it: We’re asking ourselves to do something we don’t want to do — or worse yet, someone else is asking us to do it. While we might not like them, having a budget does help. In divorce planning — whether you are going to litigation,…See More
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Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

21st Century Parenting Plans

I remember when the default custody arrangement had one parent as the custodial parent, and the other parent was known as the “Disneyland parent.” They had their children every other weekend, and maybe once during the week for dinner. Today it is more common to see joint parenting time consist of one week on, and one week off or “two-two-five-five” time,…See More
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Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

Including a Financial Professional in Your Mediation

Very often, couples who are divorcing amicably, or who have straightforward financial situations, will forgo meeting with a financial professional while they go through mediation. Though this may seem logical on its face, “going it alone” may result in unnecessary hardship and inaccurate calculations.  It is easy to simply look at a tax table today and say “I am going…See More
Jul 30, 2019
Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

What About the House?

Going through divorce means dealing with hundreds of details, some more important than others. One detail that merits extra contemplation is how to deal with the marital home.Does one spouse want to keep it because the children still live there? You don't want to disrupt their lives any more than is already happening. What if the children are grown? Do you still need that much of a house?Here are the three most common means of dealing with the house in divorce:Selling the house and dividing the…See More
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