Peaceful Divorce

November 2012 Blog Posts (3)

Suggestions for Effective Collaborative Negotiations: The Help List

I was reading an excellent book called Collaborative Divorce, written by Pauline Tesler and Peggy Thompson, which gave me pause to consider what people should really think about when they come in for Collaborative Divorce.  I’ve known Pauline and Peggy since they trained me in Collaborative Divorce back in 1999 and their…

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Added by Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA on November 27, 2012 at 9:30am — No Comments

Working Together to Send Your Kids to College

People going through divorce are getting smarter. They’re looking for ways to work together for the good of the family - in their parenting arrangements, financial settlements and in the education of their children. Sending a child to college is one of the most significant financial burdens divorced parents can face today, but there are choices…

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Added by Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA on November 14, 2012 at 11:56am — No Comments

Working Together to Send Your Kids to College

People going through divorce are getting smarter. They’re looking for ways to work together for the good of the family - in their parenting arrangements, financial settlements and in the education of their children. Sending a child to college is one of the most significant financial burdens divorced parents can face today, but there are choices that you can…

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Added by Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA on November 14, 2012 at 11:55am — No Comments

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Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

What Is a Caucus?

One of the guiding values in mediation and collaborative law is transparency. It comes with the territory when one is trying to establish trust with two different parties. Sometimes an issue may arise that one party may wish not to discuss in front of the other. If they both agree, separate meetings may take place. These meetings are called caucuses.Caucuses can be…See More
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Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

How Important Is the Budget in Divorce Planning?

I think everyone’s least favorite word is BUDGET. Why don’t we want to hear that word? Think about it: We’re asking ourselves to do something we don’t want to do — or worse yet, someone else is asking us to do it. While we might not like them, having a budget does help. In divorce planning — whether you are going to litigation,…See More
Sep 18
Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

21st Century Parenting Plans

I remember when the default custody arrangement had one parent as the custodial parent, and the other parent was known as the “Disneyland parent.” They had their children every other weekend, and maybe once during the week for dinner. Today it is more common to see joint parenting time consist of one week on, and one week off or “two-two-five-five” time,…See More
Aug 15
Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

Including a Financial Professional in Your Mediation

Very often, couples who are divorcing amicably, or who have straightforward financial situations, will forgo meeting with a financial professional while they go through mediation. Though this may seem logical on its face, “going it alone” may result in unnecessary hardship and inaccurate calculations.  It is easy to simply look at a tax table today and say “I am going…See More
Jul 30
Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

What About the House?

Going through divorce means dealing with hundreds of details, some more important than others. One detail that merits extra contemplation is how to deal with the marital home.Does one spouse want to keep it because the children still live there? You don't want to disrupt their lives any more than is already happening. What if the children are grown? Do you still need that much of a house?Here are the three most common means of dealing with the house in divorce:Selling the house and dividing the…See More
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