Peaceful Divorce

May 2008 Blog Posts (10)

Nolo Press Founder Gives Away His Best!

Our amazing and prolific member, Ed Sherman, Esq., founder of Nolo Press, has a free product that no divorce professional or person facing divorce should be without. It is called:

A Free Guide to a Peaceful Divorce,

Make Any Case Smoother, Less Painful, Less Expensive

Click on:, to see a picture of the Guides, and click on that picture (it’s a link)… Continue

Added by Cynthia Tiano, Esq. on May 19, 2008 at 11:00am — No Comments

Rosalind Sedacca & Christina Rowe invite Youtube's outspoken "Divorce Lady" to the Largest Divorce Party in the U.S.

Authors invite Tricia Walsh-Smith to celebrate her divorce with

300 South Florida divorcees

Fort Lauderdale, FL: After watching Tricia Walsh-Smith on complaining about her impending divorce, authors Christina Rowe and Rosalind Sedacca, hosts of the Largest Divorce Party in the nation, decided to invite Ms.Walsh to their next Divorce Party on May 30th. Hundreds of divorced men and women from South Florida have been gathering at Christopher’s Night Club in… Continue

Added by Rosalind Sedacca, CCT on May 13, 2008 at 1:29pm — 2 Comments

Creating Inner And Outer Peace With Susan Allan

Our amazing member Susan Allan of, is at it again! On May 29th,she is providing a free event for those local to the Santa Monica area (if you aren't local, it will be available later on DVD) called:

Creating Inner and Outer Peace with Susan Allan, America’s leading Marriage and Divorce Coach, creator of The Heartspace System & Patricia Fitzgerald, Doctor of Holistic Medicine and Author of The Detox Solution.

Dr. Fitzgerald, a leading national expert… Continue

Added by Cynthia Tiano, Esq. on May 13, 2008 at 12:30pm — 1 Comment

Divorce Settlement: Inspire The Desire

I recently had a divorce mediation where, as often is the case, I was working with two divorce lawyers and two co-parents who couldn't stand each other. It literally took me hours to get them into the same room together and, although these parties had many written divorce settlement agreements between them, years later we were still there, fighting over interpretation and compliance.

In speaking with them alone (I sent the lawyers out of the room to do child support and other… Continue

Added by Cynthia Tiano, Esq. on May 12, 2008 at 10:00pm — No Comments

Holding The Vision

What would you like your relationship with your spouse or ex-spouse to look like? Have you ever thought about it? How can you get what you want, if you don't know what you want?

Most people spend their time thinking about what they don't want, rather than what they do want. You know that what you focus on expands.

How about sitting down and figuring out what your perfect relationship with them would look like? Whether you are going to stay married or get…

Added by Cynthia Tiano, Esq. on May 7, 2008 at 9:00pm — No Comments

Peer Pressure

Why do such a large percentage of people find it difficult to accept the lack of animosity we feel toward each other? So many feel that we should not talk, not smile at each other, not share a meal.

For example, I (briefly) dated a woman here in Santa Barbara, whom I will call Mary. Mary has two grown children and has been separated from her husband for over a decade. Mary and I had dated twice when she saw my (soontobeEx) wife, myself and a friend at a local jazz club.

I,… Continue

Added by Kevin Bourke on May 6, 2008 at 6:30pm — 1 Comment

Honor Your Ex

Why not continue to honor her even though we are no longer compatible as marriage partners?

Why give her less honor than I would give any woman in any situation just because I happened to have been married to her?

In fact, to honor her less would be an insult to my own ability to select a marriage mate in the beginning. Perhaps she was the perfect choice for me at the time but is no longer.

I choose to honor her as a I would any person, and to honor her so as to… Continue

Added by Kevin Bourke on May 5, 2008 at 10:46pm — 1 Comment

Let It Slide

I find that objectively looking at what is best for the children causes me to set aside my pride and sense of entitlement and accept a situation that otherwise might cause me to retaliate in anger.

Remembering that the unkind things that my partner occasionally says are a byproduct of the stress she is feeling and not indicative of who I really am as a person, helps me take things in stride. Her opinion is skewed by her current emotional state, not necessarily by any legitimate… Continue

Added by Kevin Bourke on May 5, 2008 at 10:30pm — 1 Comment

Don't Bad Mouth Your Ex or SoonToBe Ex

We all have experienced the pain of hearing that someone, perhaps even a close friend, has said something negative about our character, appearance, family, etc.

It also seems that often those comments have been taken out of context, exaggerated, or even completely fabricated. Nevertheless, it hurts to hear that others think poorly of us. And if indeed someone did deliberately defame us, that is especially painful.

Why say anything about our ex-partner that could be… Continue

Added by Kevin Bourke on May 5, 2008 at 2:40pm — 1 Comment

Powerful Peaceful Divorce Players Interviewed!

Two powerful interviews around the subject of Peaceful Divorce have now been posted right here! Scroll down below the videos to the music player and you'll find these nuggets of gold!

Don’t miss the “Heartspace System” interview of Susan Allan by Belinda Rachman, Esq. and hear Susan's breakthrough system that has had powerful and positive results in both reconciling marriages, and in creating peaceful divorces!

Also just posted is Cynthia Tiano, Esq.’s radio interview on… Continue

Added by Cynthia Tiano, Esq. on May 2, 2008 at 5:30pm — No Comments

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