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About Me:: Hi there, I am a counsellor/Life coach with a field of interest in Teens, Parenting, Single Parenting and Divorce related issues.
Having struggled through my own life’s challenges I awakened to the realization and importance of parenting after divorce.
My aim is to provide divorcing parents with the support and solutions best adapted to both their personalities in order to help them re-look their pattern of communications and better their relationship as co-parents.
There isn't anything more rewarding than the privilege of having children.
If what you truly want is the best for your children, do the right thing for them, even if it means compromising some parts of your life.

Do whatever you need to have your children experience the love they deserve from both parents.
You owe it to them.

I am also the founder of SADSA | The South African Divorce Support Association - www.sadsa.net

Website:: http://www.innerminds.co.za

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Peaceful Divorce Movement in South Africa

Hi Everyone,

my name is Nadia and I am a counsellor with a field of interest in Teens, Parenting and Divorce related issues. I am based in Cape Town/South Africa and my mission is to bring the Peaceful Divorce movement all the way here.

I am already involved in a very exciting project with Rosalind Sedacca - we will share this with everyone, very soon, I am sure! :-) -

This movement seems to be already happening strongly in the USA with quite a lot of resources.

I would be… Continue

Posted on October 31, 2008 at 12:05pm

Peaceful Divorce Movement in South Africa

Posted on October 31, 2008 at 12:04pm

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At 7:48pm on September 14, 2008, Cynthia Tiano, Esq. said…: I love your answer in the Forum Nadia. Very well put.

Yes, I think we all agree here that a paradigm shift is in order - and we are each a part of it!

Peaceful Divorce is a movement, and we are thrilled that it is global. Please feel free to contribute blog posts or articles, and I will be happy to feature them on the main page!

Cynthia

At 10:06am on September 11, 2008, Rosalind Sedacca, CCT said…: Hi Nadia:

Your comments resonated with me and I share your passion for easing the way for families faced with divorce. My philosophy parallels yours and I'd love to talk with you about ways to spread the word.

Best wishes,
Rosalind

At 1:06am on September 11, 2008, Dr. Jackie Black said…: Hi Nadia:

Thanks for inviting me to be a friend!

I was in your beautiful country in May for almost the entire month! I fell completely in love with Africa. I was working and teaching most of the time but I did make it to the Bush for several days! I am hooked; and totally transformed.

I look forward to getting to know you.

Warm regards,
Jackie

At 9:29pm on September 10, 2008, Cynthia Tiano, Esq. said…: Hi Nadia -

It is a thought-provoking question!

The place that each of us finds our "piece of the peaceful divorce puzzle" is within ourselves.

It seems to me like a part of your piece of the puzzle is "to provide divorcing parents with the support and solutions best adapted to both their personalities in order to help them re-look their pattern of communications and better their relationship as co-parents." (your words!) :-)

Together, with each of our unique messages, we can (and will) change the way the world divorces. Once you feel comfortable with your answer, we'd love to read it on the Forum!

Warm regards,

Cynthia

At 9:21pm on September 10, 2008, Kenneth Friedman said…: Nadia:

I am interested to hear what you have to say about parenting after divorce.

At 12:40pm on September 10, 2008, Nadia Thonnard said…: Hi Cynthia and thanks for the warm welcome. I'm a bit "puzzled" by my missing piece? Where am I supposed to find this piece of puzzle?

At 12:13pm on September 10, 2008, Cynthia Tiano, Esq. said…: Hi Nadia -

Welcome to Peaceful Divorce! We are honored to have you here and are very much looking forward to you joining this important conversation.

I am so glad to see you connecting with our members - we all have the same vision!

We would love for you to answer the Forum question, "Which Piece Of The Peaceful Divorce Puzzle Do You Have?"

I am looking forward to checking out your site, and connecting!

Let me know if I may help in any way!

Cynthia Tiano, Esq.
Peaceful Divorce Mediator
Author, “Happily Divorced! Secrets of the Win-Win Formula”

At 7:28am on September 10, 2008, Diane Tegarden said…: Nadia,
it's nice to meet you here, let me know if you are interested in using my self help divorce book with your practice, or if you are looking for radio guests to interview.
Have a prosperous week,
Diane T.

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