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I have been practicing child and adolescent psychiatry in Westchester County, New York for twenty years. Areas of specialty include child and adolescent psychotherapy, evaluations and treatment. In addition my work has included marriage therapy and helping parents (with children) through ups and downs of divorce. I am a graduate of Georgetown University Hospital and New York Hospital/Cornell Weil Medical Center. My academic Affiliation: Adjunct Professor; Doctor of Ministry Program, Hebrew Union College , New York . Publications: Published in the area of Child and Adolescent Development, Psychology and Spirituality, Kids in Cyberspace and Integrative Medicine. In 2010, I will be coming out with a book called The Intelligent Divorce, modeled on work with divorcing parents and their children. Media: Appeared on radio and on national television, including The CBS Early Show, CBS Morning News and The Ricki Lake Show; also hosted a show called The Growing Child on local cable.
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The Value of Grief: Part Two

Grief is the natural, psychological response to the loss of a marriage, and you need to go through it in order to come out of your divorce healthy and strong. Let’s understand grief more deeply. It will help you go through it in a healthy way. Fighting grief usually makes it last longer, like going back to a sport before an injury has really healed. This is how you get hurt, yet again



Take a look at the chart below. It will help you visualize your mind’s immune… Continue

Posted on March 16, 2011 at 10:00am

The Value of Grief: Part One

Grief is positive; it’s part of healing. If you bang your toe and it bruises or bleeds, your physiological reaction is part of the recovery process. The pain you feel is a signal to be tender with your toe—not to test it.

Swelling tells you that your immune system is taking charge, and bruising reminds you that it will take time to heal.

You know that if you bandage your wound properly, keep it clean, and allow nature to do its thing, you will heal, and you’ll heal…

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Posted on March 9, 2011 at 10:00am

Balance, Divorce and Health

The following image is what The Intelligent Divorce: Taking Care of Yourself, proposes for you: balance and a clear identity.

By taking charge of your life, you’re more likely to be healthy and happy, and your kids will follow suit.

I admit that this isn’t easy. But once you get started, you can begin a positive feedback loop—one that continues to yield returns. The better care you take of yourself, the more likely you will feel good and continue to…

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Posted on March 2, 2011 at 10:00am

Despite the Divorce, Take Charge of Yourself

Take a look at the diagram below:

The image above depicts something you see frequently in divorce—individuals whose personal selves are crowded out by that which surrounds them. I am quite certain that anyone going through a divorce can relate to not having enough time for herself. It also makes sense, there are so many competing demands and very often, just one parent instead of two. But this type of life just cannot hold up – you have to take charge of your…

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Posted on February 23, 2011 at 10:00am

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At 4:14am on June 18, 2010, Cynthia Tiano, Esq. said…
Hi Mark -

Welcome to Peaceful Divorce! We are honored to have you here and are very much looking forward to you joining this important conversation.

We would love for you to answer the Forum question, "Which Piece Of The Peaceful Divorce Puzzle Do You Have?"

I am looking forward to checking out your site, and connecting!

Let me know if I may help in any way!

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Now What Do We Do?

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Key Provisions of the New Tax Law

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Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

What is Hidden in the New Tax Proposal That Could Change Divorce

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Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

Tax Tips for the Recently Divorced

We are only 10 weeks away from the end of the year. What does that mean for people who have gotten divorced in 2017?It means you have to get ready to file your tax returns for the year ending 2017 by April 16, 2018 (April 15 falls on a Sunday so you can file your return on April 16) or extend it. Remember, just because you extend it, you still have to pay any…See More
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Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

Tax Q&A for Recently Divorced People

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