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Creating the Life you Imagine and Deserve!
Started Jul. 1, 2008
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What are you going to do about it?
So…what do you want?
Do you know what you really want? You “say” you do, but do you REALLY know?
And if you do know, are you ready to face your fear and do it anyway? To make it happen?
You can make all the excuses you want…but the knowledge, power and tools to get EVERYTHING you want are already within you! IMAGINE THAT!
Let me ask you a couple of questions:
1. What do you spend your time doing and focusing on that does not serve you or move you towards what you want?
2. Are there things that you fear or don’t want to experience but you often find yourself thinking about anyway and more than you should? How much time do you spend thinking about the things you DON’T want?
3. What activities do you do on a regular basis that you really don’t have to? Things that you don’t have a sense of real purpose about and that don’t give you an outcome or result that you want and yet you find yourself doing anyway?
If you have answered these questions honestly, then I predict that a significant portion of your time, and probably your dollars, are spent on doing things that:
• don’t move you towards what you REALLY want
• are a result of “excuses” to avoid FEAR of doing those things that will move you closer to your desires
• fill you with a “temporary” pleasure that ultimately leaves you feeling empty and unfulfilled and farther away from what you want
• do not reflect those things that matter most to you and that you are PASSIONATE about…that have MEANING to them
Am I right?
I am not happy to be right, but my guess is that the largest percentage of your time and resources are spent on those things that do not and will not get you to your new and extraordinary life!
There are many reasons for this…some that you may know and many that deserve exploration.
When you are REALLY ready to align your time, resources and mindset with what you KNOW you want…then you will find it will all come flooding through the door!
And I am here to support you to finding this alignment!
Here is just one exercise that you can do get the juices flowing and give you some clarity around what you really, truly DO want!
Complete the following sentence no less than 10 times to reflect what you believe you WANT in your new life:
When my life is ideal, I am…
When you are done, you should have a list of the approximately 10 most things that REALLY MATTER to you…that you identify as giving you passion and fulfillment.
Take your time and be honest!
Once you complete this, you will be ready to begin the work that is necessary to align your focus, time and resources on CREATING a life that fulfills you!
As I always say…you are not alone and are not meant to do it alone! Whether it is me, a therapist or another source of support…create your own “team” to help you get to where you want to go!
The Awakening!
A time comes in your life when you finally get it. When in the midst of all your fears and insanity you stop dead in your tracks and somewhere the voice inside your head cries out - ENOUGH! Enough fighting and crying or struggling to hold on. And, like a child quieting down after a blind tantrum, your sobs begin to subside, you shudder once or twice, you blink back your tears and through a mantle of wet lashes you begin to look at the world through new eyes.Child-Centered Divorce Month (CCDM)!
Please join me in honoring and celebrating CCDM this July! Below is information about this wonderful National month of recognition and some of the fabulous resources that are being offered! My good friend and colleague, Rosalind Sedacca has been the powerful voice behind this movement and I want to acknowledge her for helping us all to remember just how important a Peaceful Divorce is!Father's Day Advice!
So, this weekend is Father's Day! If you are separated or divorced, this is a day that can be filled with anxiety, frustration, anger and all kinds of emotions. What I want to stress to you today is that no matter what kind of man/"ex" your children's father is...he is still their father and they need him desperately!When Will It End?!
Have you ever found yourself asking this question?? Perhaps you ask it about a particular day. About a particular meeting. About a situation. About a moment in time. The real question is….What is IT?Laura Campbell's Page
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- Laura is the Founder of The D Spot, www.discoverthedspot.com, and a Divorce and Life Transition Coach for women experiencing the Journey of Divorce. Laura’s education, experience, background and life experience have all been a journey to discovering The D Spot and her Life Coaching practice. Her personal experience as a business professional, extensive education and life as a married woman and mother had not provided her with the resources and insight to prepare for and address her own divorce, so she made creating these resources her mission. The D Spot today is dedicated to helping women regroup, renew and reinvent themselves before, during and after divorce.
Working with women from all over the country, Laura’s commitment is to the divorced woman finding balance in her life. Laura’s expertise is in helping women view their divorce as a journey and reconnecting to who they are. She coaches, speaks and teaches on how woman can renew their spirit and life goals to create the life they are meant to lead. Her practice, online community and dedicated divorce resource network will all be found at www.discoverthedspot.com.
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Father's Day for Divorced Women!
If you are separated or divorced, this is a day that can be filled with anxiety, frustration, anger and all kinds of emotions.
What I want to stress to you today is that no matter what kind of man/”ex” your children’s father is…he is still their father and they need him desperately!
• Regardless of what your children say
• Regardless of what he does
• Whether or not he pays, honors his obligations or is a kind/decent person
Your children need him!
I know ho… Continue
Posted on June 16, 2009 at 6:15pm — 1 Comment
When Will It End?!
Have you ever found yourself asking this question??
Perhaps you ask it about a particular day.
About a particular meeting.
About a situation.
About a moment in time.
The real question is….What is IT?
When we are going through a divorce, we seem to ask ourselves this question over and over again….thinking that the “IT” is the divorce.
However, once the divorce is over, this little question does not stop nudging us. Have you ever felt this way?
My own experience had me ask… Continue
Posted on June 10, 2009 at 1:14pm —
Birthdays!
This is the time each year that I do a bit of visioning about what I want my next year to be like. I ask myself:
* what will the next year look like?
* what will it feel like?
* who will come into my life that I don't already know?
* what wonderful adventures will I share with my children?
* what new and exciting ways can I express my love of my friend… Continue
Posted on May 29, 2009 at 2:10pm —
From the Universe
The following message was sent to me anonymously and I loved it! If you are not a believer in what you put out will come back to you tenfold, please think again!
This is The Universe. Today I will be handling All of your problems for you. I do Not need your help.
So, have a nice day.
I love you.
P.S. And, remember...
If life happens to deliver a situation to you that you cannot handle, do Not attempt to resolve it yourself! Kindly put it in the SFTUTD (something… Continue
Posted on August 8, 2008 at 5:51pm — 1 Comment
From the Universe
The following message was sent to me anonymously and I loved it! If you are not a believer in what you put out will come back to you tenfold, please think again!
This is The Universe. Today I will be handling All of your problems for you. I do Not need your help.
So, have a nice day.
I love you.
P.S. And, remember...
If life happens to deliver a situation to you that you cannot handle, do Not attempt to resolve it yourself! Kindly put it in the SFTUTD (something for the… Continue
Posted on August 8, 2008 at 5:49pm —
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- At 9:12am on August 11, 2008,
Krista Barth, Esq. said… - Laura, What an incredible need you are filling. I see it every day. People who have support and information about how to move forward have the most sucessful outcomes. All the best, Krista
- At 2:35pm on August 10, 2008,
Sharon Zarozny said… - Hi Laura,
Thanks for befriending me! I like your website and mission and look forward to getting to know you.
-Sharon
- At 10:03am on August 9, 2008,
Jeffrey Malone Master Spiritual Divorce Coach said… - Thanks for all your thoughts Laura. I too am a believer in allowing the universe to work its magic and not try to be the general manager of the world. I help both men and women see the perfection and gifts in their divorce so they can begin you use it to lve an even better more extraordinary life going forward. Sounds like we do some of the same work. Love to share ideas some time
Warmly,
Jeff
- At 6:28pm on August 8, 2008,
Dr. Jackie Black said…
- Hi Laura!
Thanks for your invitation. I would love to be your friend. I look forward to getting to know you better soon.
Warmy,
Dr. Jackie
- At 9:57am on July 18, 2008,
Laura Campbell said…
- That sounds great, Cynthia...perhaps Monday or Tuesday of next week?
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- At 9:55am on July 18, 2008, Cynthia Tiano, Esq. said…
- Hey Laura -
Let's connect. I now have my affiliate tools in place for the Happily Divorced program, so let's talk about that!
I would also like to do a teleseminar or interview with you in the near future.
Let's schedule a time to talk!
Cynthia
- At 8:56pm on July 10, 2008, Cynthia Tiano, Esq. said…
- Great job, Laura! It sounds like an exciting coaching session. Thanks so much for offering it free to our members - we appreciate it!
Let's talk some more. I'm going to enable the IM hopefully this weekend and then we can really chat!
Cynthia
- At 8:30pm on July 10, 2008,
Belinda Rachman, Esq. said… - It is always good to have more partners in the peaceful divorce movement. The example you set by getting on well with your ex is fantastic. I only hope more people will follow your example. So where do you live? I am in Southern California.
- At 5:33pm on May 9, 2008, Cynthia Tiano, Esq. said…
- Laura -
Welcome to Peaceful Divorce! We are honored to have you here and are very much looking forward to you sharing your experience and wisdom with us! Please feel free to weigh in on our forum discussions, or create one of your own! Thanks for joining this most important conversation!
Your site looks awesome and I am looking forward to checking it out in depth!
Warm regards,
Cynthia Tiano, Esq.
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