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Cynthia Tiano, Esq., Peaceful Divorce Mediator

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I am a reformed "killer" divorce attorney, author and peaceful divorce mediator. My vision is to bring the message of peaceful divorce to the world in a very big way, and to change the usual divorce advice and divorce help to support peaceful divorce. I created this website because I want you to join me!

I have been a divorce attorney in Palm Beach County Florida for 26 years. I was in the trenches doing legal battle until I created my own peaceful divorce. Now for the past 12 years I have exclusively practiced divorce mediation to help couples create a peaceful divorce for themselves and their families.

I am the co-Author of "Happily Divorced! Secrets of the Win-Win Formula" book and audio series which provides a never before revealed look into the real world of divorce, and shows, step-by-step, how to create a peaceful divorce!

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http://HappilyDivorced.org
http://CynthiaTiano.com

email: Cynthia@PeacefulDivorce.org
phone: 954.561.0105
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The gripping tales in "Happily Divorced!" take you deep into the never-before-revealed real psycho-legal world of divorce! This book is guaranteed to change the way the world divorces from the battleground to a peaceful divorce!

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Nat'l Child-Centered Divorce Month Launched With Free Teleseminars and Gifts for Parents!

Written By Rosalind Sedacca

The third annual National Child-Centered Divorce Month, taking place throughout July, is being launched with a series of complimentary teleseminars and bonus gifts for parents.

Divorce book author, Rosalind Sedacca, CCT, a certified corporate trainer recognized as The Voice of Child-Centered Divorce, initiated National Child-Centered Divorce Month. “These weeks are dedicated to helping parents make the best possible decisions regarding their children during a… Continue

Posted on July 3, 2009 at 5:00pm —

Cynthia Tiano, Esq.

Bashing Your Ex is Bad News for Your Children

Member Rosalind Sedacca, CCT wrote this important post. Please read and pass it on!
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We all do it from time to time. Make a sarcastic comment about our ex, criticize something they did or didn't do, gesture or grimace our faces when referring to our former spouse. When we do it in front of, near or within hearing distance of our children, we set ourselves up for a hornet's nest of problems.

We have all heard this, but it's easy to forget or let slide. It hurts our children when they… Continue

Posted on June 30, 2009 at 9:30am —

Cynthia Tiano, Esq.

My Peaceful Divorce

Many people have asked me why I turned from being a successful, aggressive divorce attorney to a mediator. It is a question that I have been asked over and over again for a dozen years now. I admit that I never really delved deeply into the question, just answered it with some general statements like, “It was no longer in line with my truth,” or “My spiritual growth would no longer allow me to ignore the damage I was doing to families,” or some such.

Now, to a large extent, these statements are… Continue

Posted on April 4, 2009 at 4:30pm — 5 Comments

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Divorce 360 Reviews "Happily Divorced!"

The mega-divorce site, Divorce 360, has reviewed founding member Cynthia Tiano's book and audio program, "Happily Divorced! Secrets of the Win-Win Formula". Here is what they had to say:

"Cynthia Tiano was once considered a "killer" as a divorce attorney. She was respected by fellow attorneys and feared by their clients, who worried what they'd lose when they faced her in divorce court. It wasn't until her own divorce that she began to wonder about her tactics.

"I was well aware of the… Continue

Posted on March 4, 2009 at 5:00pm —

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At 2:39pm on July 6, 2009, Brooke Deratany Goldfarb said…
Hi, Cynthia, Although I am a lawyer, I'm happiest when I play the role of mediator because I enjoy encouraging both parties to express themselves and working out language that everyone can live with. As I am a lawyer by training, I also enjoy working in a collaborative divorce. Most of the time I work as the mediator and I bring in a financial advisor to help the couple with the numbers and sometimes a mental health therapist to help with the parent coordination, all of us as neutrals. The couple truly benefits from having a "divorce transition team" in place. I never give up on the couple. I stand for the resolution of all issues. I'm kind of the cheerleader and coach for the couple as well as the drafter of the documents. I also try to keep them laughing and diffuse the tension with humor.
At 1:40pm on June 24, 2009, Kristi Sutter said…
Hi Cynthia,
My piece to the peaceful divorce puzzle is helping individuals explore their childhood experiences and relationships and how they use these to select a partner. Looking at their attempt to repeat what is familiar to them, or attempt repairing what is familiar but not satisfying, can be life changing. I have seen the anger decrease between partners when each realizes that their being together was not a chance happening. Understanding this process can produce compassion for each partner's struggle taking blame away. This is a difficult process. Some partners would rather blame and stay angry. Those who can look at themselves will grow, change and look at divorce as an opportunity.
At 9:24am on June 17, 2009, Cindy S. Vova said…
Hi Cynthia,
First, can you tell me how to edit my profiel so I can get rid of the typo.---going too many directions at one time. WOuld like to get more involved. Cindy H and I have been batting around ideas. Maybe we can all meet one day this summer and chat? Let me know your thoughts
Cindy Vova
At 7:58pm on May 17, 2009, Miki said…
I thought I did leave a comment..one being that there is NO RESOURCES available to folks not interested in utilizing an attorney and/or Mediator...one in the same aside from the fact one is less costlier than the other..I"m looking for resources that would GUIDE ME THROUGH A PRO SE DIVORCE...but I do understand, it is in the best interest of Professionals to promote business and this would be the avenue. Feel free to send me info if you have it available for interested PRO SE parties...I would really appreciate free advice that would assist me ..and not advertisements for their BUSINESS SERVICES....

Thanks for your info!
Yes Peaceful indeed and I would like to know, have you been through a divorce? I think it should be a requirement for the attornies who specialize in the field to have been through the process..it would then be viewed as much more GENUINE ADVICE! Don't you agree?

Again, thanks and all the best look forward to hearing back from you!
MK
At 1:54am on March 28, 2009, Holly said…
While I usually represent one party in a divorce with respect to the division of retirement benefits--I am sometimes retained by both parties to counsel/mediate the terms of their agreement as to this issue and/or to draft the necessary documents (usually court orders known as "QDROs") so that the retirement division may be effectuated by the applicable plans. When I am in the neutral role I serve as an educator so that the parties can make an informed decision about how best to proceed.
At 9:52pm on March 17, 2009, JoAnn said…
Thanks for the welcome. I don't see a time zone on the teleconferences. That would be helpful. I'm in CDT.
At 5:45pm on February 17, 2009, Rory Godowsky said…
Hi Cynthia
I am very pleased to be a part of this group. I have been a divorce attorney in Delaware for thiry years. I have beena mediator for 15. I am interested in learning more about what you plan to do as a group. I am interested in becoming more involved.
Rory Godowsky
At 9:44am on February 17, 2009, J. Richard Kulerski said…
Cynthia,

Thank you for welcoming me into the group.

My piece of the peaceful divorce puzzle addresses something that society and our predecessors in divorce seem to have overlooked.

If we want to learn how to drive, we take lessons. It's the same with karate, dancing, golf, driving, breast feeding, etc.. There are even instructions and tips for learning how to sell a yo-yo on eBay.

But they never gave us any lessons on how to get divorced. No one tells us what to say and do (and not say and do!) if we hope to persuade our partner to agree to a peaceful, out-of-court settlement.

If society had never required driving instruction, we would have just experienced a century of unnecessary car wrecks. Without specific instruction on how to behave during one-on-one spousal settlement conversations, we have, in fact, already experienced a century of divorce wrecks/wars, many of which were likely unnecessary.

I have come across many newly revealed and effective things that divorcing spouses can now do to entice their spouses to join them in making their ordeal quicker, saner, and more affordable. I plan on sharing these insights with the group.

The more I learn is the more I realize that I need to learn, and whatever I have to offer is certainly far from complete.

I sincerely ask for and welcome any and all input.

I can't remember my nickname.

Richard Kulerski
At 9:18pm on January 29, 2009, Lisa C. Decker said…
Hi Cynthia,

I want to thank you and Cindy Harari for being on my teleconference call last night - Credit 911!

I appreciated you being a part of it and hope you found the information enriching and enlightening.

I would like to talk with you and Cindy about being guests on a future call and talking about Peaceful Divorce. Please email me directly at Lisa @ Divorce Money Matters. com.

Take care,

Lisa C. Decker, CDFA
www.DivorceMoneyMatters.com
At 12:40am on January 9, 2009, Teresa Dentino, CDFA said…
Thank you for your welcoming remarks. I will defintely be more active here as I get into the flow of things. Well done!
 
 

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