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This will probably surprise you but divorce is NOT a legal issue, it is a personal issue and most people should get a divorce with little or no lawyer involv...
Belinda Rachman, Esq.'s blog post was featuredDivorce Lawyers and the Reptilian Brain
No one goes into marriage thinking they will divorce one day, but if half of all marriages end in divorce, as the statistics tell us, the chance of a couple staying together are about 50/50, which may be a good bet or bad bet - depending on whether or not you like to gamble.There is only one sure bet about divorce, and that is this: hiring a divorce lawyer will only make things more expensive and nasty. I have seen some rackets in my day, but none surpass the self-serving nut house that is our…See More
Belinda Rachman, Esq. posted a blog postDivorce Lawyers and the Reptilian Brain
No one goes into marriage thinking they will divorce one day, but if half of all marriages end in divorce, as the statistics tell us, the chance of a couple staying together are about 50/50, which may be a good bet or bad bet - depending on whether or not you like to gamble.There is only one sure bet about divorce, and that is this: hiring a divorce lawyer will only make things more expensive and nasty. I have seen some rackets in my day, but none surpass the self-serving nut house that is our…See More
Belinda Rachman, Esq.'s blog post was featuredHow To Save $37,500 On Legal Fees AND Protect Your Co-Parenting Relationship
This will probably surprise you but divorce is NOT a legal issue, it is a personal issue and most people should get a divorce with little or no lawyer involvement. If you want to have the smoothest divorce possible the solution is to resolve your problems outside of court.1. Avoid Lawyers and Courts as much as possible! The first thing you should know is that our legal system is not child-focused or family-friendly; it is adversarial by nature. The emotional and financial price you pay when you…See More
Belinda Rachman, Esq. posted a blog postHow To Save $37,500 On Legal Fees AND Protect Your Co-Parenting Relationship
This will probably surprise you but divorce is NOT a legal issue, it is a personal issue and most people should get a divorce with little or no lawyer involvement. If you want to have the smoothest divorce possible the solution is to resolve your problems outside of court.1. Avoid Lawyers and Courts as much as possible! The first thing you should know is that our legal system is not child-focused or family-friendly; it is adversarial by nature. The emotional and financial price you pay when you…See More
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- I was a special ed teacher prior to becoming an attorney so I came to the law wanting to act only in the best interest of the child. I was horrified when I saw what the real deal was with divorce court. It is a total racket and the only people who benefit are the lawyers. The overwhelming majority of divorcing couples would be better off using a mediator.
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Divorce Lawyers and the Reptilian Brain
No one goes into marriage thinking they will divorce one day, but if half of all marriages end in divorce, as the statistics tell us, the chance of a couple staying together are about 50/50, which may be a good bet or bad bet - depending on whether or not you like to gamble.
There is only one sure bet about divorce, and that is this: hiring a divorce lawyer will only make things more expensive and nasty. I have seen some rackets in my day, but none surpass the self-serving nut house… Continue
There is only one sure bet about divorce, and that is this: hiring a divorce lawyer will only make things more expensive and nasty. I have seen some rackets in my day, but none surpass the self-serving nut house… Continue
Posted on September 26, 2009 at 8:30pm
How To Save $37,500 On Legal Fees AND Protect Your Co-Parenting Relationship
This will probably surprise you but divorce is NOT a legal issue, it is a personal issue and most people should get a divorce with little or no lawyer involvement. If you want to have the smoothest divorce possible the solution is to resolve your problems outside of court.
1. Avoid Lawyers and Courts as much as possible! The first thing you should know is that our legal system is not child-focused or family-friendly; it is adversarial by nature. The emotional and financial price you… Continue
1. Avoid Lawyers and Courts as much as possible! The first thing you should know is that our legal system is not child-focused or family-friendly; it is adversarial by nature. The emotional and financial price you… Continue
Posted on March 27, 2009 at 8:00pm
What to advise clients who are thinking of divorce
Every now and then you will get a call from a client asking for a referral to a divorce attorney. Like all referral situations, a recommendation can have serious repercussions if the work isn't done properly or the parties don't like each other. You can win or lose big depending on the outcome. You want to steer your client in the right direction but just don't know who to trust with your most precious resources, your reputation and your clients.
The words that you are about to read… Continue
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Posted on March 20, 2008 at 9:29am
9 Top Tips To Avoid Court!
1. Appoint a Special Master (go to person) for disputed issues regarding the
kids
Instead of running to court when issues come up in the future, build into your divorce agreement a back door to avoid court. Is there a couple who
has already successfully raised their children, whose opinion you trust? They
would be the perfect Special Master to use when kid disputes arise in the
future. This is an honor most people would gladly accept. When issues come… Continue
kids
Instead of running to court when issues come up in the future, build into your divorce agreement a back door to avoid court. Is there a couple who
has already successfully raised their children, whose opinion you trust? They
would be the perfect Special Master to use when kid disputes arise in the
future. This is an honor most people would gladly accept. When issues come… Continue
Posted on January 24, 2008 at 11:24am — 1 Comment
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Cynthia Tiano, Esq.'s blog post was featuredHow To Get A Divorce The Peaceful Way - Even If Your Ex Is Not On Board!
In my 30 years as a divorce attorney, and especially the last 16 years that I have been a divorce mediator, and now as a coach, a phrase I have heard very often when I get up on my soapbox about Peaceful Divorce is, “but you don’t know my ex!” or “it’s not possible to have a peaceful divorce in my situation”. Not so. You CAN learn how to get a divorce the peaceful way, whether your spouse or ex is on board right now or not. Now that may not be what you want to hear because what it does is place…See More
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I am in Connecticut...across the country. Would love to connect with you.
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Love your group! I am a Divorce Coach and Consultant and Founder of the D Spot, www.discoverthedspot.com!
I help women regroup, renew and reinvent themselves before, during and after divorce. I can be reached at www.lauracampbellcompanies.com.
It would be great to work together!
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We'd love to have you post something for Child Centered Divorce Month!
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What have you been up to? Fill me in!
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Collaborative law is a great idea but the cases in TX are expensive.
I certainly encourage collaborative divorce but when people can't afford it, I try to find alternatives
that work for them.
Mediation and my do it yourself kits have made practicing law fun!
At the end of the day I am energized and not totally wiped out.
I am on the board of the International Alliance of Holistic Attorneys. Our next annual conference is May 15-18 in Detroit, MI. We are staying at hte Retreat Center of St. Johns in Plymouth MI.
Go to www.iahl.org for more details.
If there is anyway to advertise this conference, I'd be very appreciative.
I've attended the last 2 years and have come back energized and inspired. It's not your usual CLE conference.
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