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Which Piece of the Peaceful Divorce Puzzle Do You Have?

Every member of this site has their own unique message around the issue of Peaceful Divorce. When we each share the piece that we have with…

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How Can We Bridge The Gap Between Divorce Attorneys And Mental Health Professionals?

As a divorce attorney and mediator, I have often felt that a missing piece to the puzzle was the involvement of mental health professionals…

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Survey. Please Take!! :-)

My name is Esmedeline Rosario and I am a senior at the City University of New York Brooklyn College. As part of my senior seminar course an…

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1 May 18, 2012
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Dressing for Mediation

A Tennessee-Mediation.com article by Lalia Wilson   So, you are scheduled for mediation, and do not know what to wear.  Here are some ideas…

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0 Aug 29, 2011

How Can We Bridge The Gap Between Divorce Attorneys And Mental Health Professionals?

As a divorce attorney and mediator, I have often felt that a missing piece to the puzzle was the involvement of mental health professionals…

Started by Cynthia Tiano, Esq. in Untitled Category

16 Dec 1, 2010
Reply by Debra Gordy MS MRET

Which Piece of the Peaceful Divorce Puzzle Do You Have?

Every member of this site has their own unique message around the issue of Peaceful Divorce. When we each share the piece that we have with…

Started by Cynthia Tiano, Esq. in Untitled Category

65 Jul 6, 2010
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Join us for National Child-Centered Divorce Month in July

Divorce Professionals throughout North America Planning 4th annual National Child-Centered Divorce Month – bringing attention to children’s…

Started by Rosalind Sedacca, CCT in Untitled Category

1 Jun 8, 2010
Reply by Cynthia Tiano, Esq.

The Peaceful Divorce Model - What Is It?

I am really interested in the "Peaceful Divorce" model and would love to know more about it.  Has anyone out there as either a professional…

Started by Michael Hiller in Tips on Using This Site

0 May 20, 2010

Free Money School for Teens

 

Started by Patti Handy in Tips on Using This Site

0 Jan 25, 2010

If your Ex is not peaceful?

I would love to hear other’s advice on how to help someone who is totally on board with the concept of a peaceful divorce and collaborative…

Started by Ashley Davis Bush in Untitled Category

1 Sep 30, 2009
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Mackenzie Phillips’ reveals much about divorce & victims of child abuse!

Let's start a discussion on this very relevant topic related to divorce and parenting. Here's a post I recently put on my blog ... It’s di…

Started by Rosalind Sedacca, CCT in Untitled Category

0 Sep 30, 2009

How do you get an article posted on the main page?

I would like to post an article or feature one of our divorce related books on the main page. How do I go about this? Also I would like to…

Started by Susan Boyan in Tips on Using This Site

0 Jul 13, 2009

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Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

What Couples Need to Know About the Divorce Mediation Process

In January of this year, I was honored to be featured in Stress-Free Divorce: Leading Divorce Professionals Speak. Unfortunately, something happened to me that has been happening all of my life: the book was published giving me credit as Robert B-O-R-D-E-T-T-E. I suppose it’s better than Bordebt, but it still makes …See More
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Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

Warning! Don’t Violate the Child Contingency Rule!

In a divorce decree, if any amount of specified money becomes reduced:Upon the happening of any contingency related to the child orAt a time that can be clearly associated with a contingency related to the child, then the amount of the reduction will be treated as child support, rather than alimony. Code Sec. 71(c)(2). Reg. §1.71-1T(c)What is a contingency?A contingency is an event related to a child,…See More
Aug 31
Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

How to Avoid the 10% Penalty When Taking Money From a Defined Contribution Plan!

Normally, distributions made before a participant attains age 59 1/2 are called “early distributions” and are subject to a 10% penalty tax. The tax does not apply, though, to early distributions upon death, disability, annuity payments for the life expectancy of the individual, or distributions made to an ex-spouse by a QDRO.The tax Reg (72)(t)(2)(C) states that when you take money out of a qualified plan in…See More
Aug 15
Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

How Can Divorce Affect Your Auto Insurance?

After divorce, people often forget to take care of a few small but very important details, such as:Joint auto Insurance policies;Amending will and life insurance beneficiaries; andSwitching accounts for bills that are on autopay.In regards to auto insurance and divorce, many couples get discounts due to being tied to their residence or having multiple vehicles. When considering the removal of a spouse from a joint policy, compare auto policies before deciding. Keep in mind the following…See More
Jul 27
Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

Getting Divorced? Don’t Forget about Long Term Care Insurance!

Often when people go through a divorce, their emotions are tied up. The questions on their mind are “how does this marriage end?” and “what do I get financially?” When they do think about health insurance, they usually don't consider long-term care insurance (LTCi). Why is it so important for recently divorced or currently divorcing couples to think about long term care planning? Two…See More
Jul 5
Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

The Grey Divorce

Perhaps you’ve heard about the phenomenon known as the “grey divorce” and are wondering what it’s all about. An important study conducted by the Department of Sociology and the National Center for Family and Marriage Research at Bowling Green State University entitled “The Grey Divorce Revolution” addressed this issue. I was attending the Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts’…See More
Jun 7
Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

Elder Care Mediation

I recently attended a conference for The Academy of Professional Family Mediators in Memphis, Tennessee. One of the workshops I participated in was on elder care mediation, which gave some fascinating insights. A 2001 study, done by Debra B. Gentry, showed nearly 40% of adult children providing care for their parents reported serious conflict with siblings, usually related to a lack of sufficient help from those siblings. This study…See More
May 17
Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

Parallel Parenting: Making the Best of a Bad Situation

I very much appreciate working on divorce cases with a team, as it has so much value for clients. Mental health professionals can bring much-needed clarity to very difficult situations. The following article, written by Howard Dructman, PhD and Marsha Schechtman, LCSW, Atlanta Behavioral Consultants, explains how the concept of parallel parenting works:A literature…See More
Apr 11
Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

Why Do I Have to Prepare a Budget?

We all hate the word budget. How many times have you had a budget that never worked and only made life harder? And when you didn't follow it, did you feel like you failed?If a budget is done right, it will provide many benefits that are crucial when going through a divorce.A budget is a guideline to help you forecast how your cash flow will look.Having a budget keeps your priorities and values straight. Many…See More
Mar 23
Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

The Difference Between Litigation and Mediation: It's Personal

People have a range of preconceptions about divorce, the law, and the courts. In reality, going before a judge to air your grievances about your soon-to-be ex-spouse is rarely as satisfying as movies and television shows may have you believe. Mediation offers a private, cost-efficient alternative to litigation—but before you choose either venue, there are some guiding principles to keep in mind:Don't expect…See More
Mar 7
Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

The Taxes They Are A-Changing

Time flies when you’re having fun; here we find ourselves in a new year, with new challenges ahead—and of course our taxes are due. So let’s bring you up to date on some tax changes that we know of. (Remember this year could bring other tax changes that we don’t know about at this time).One big change is that 1099s have to be in to the IRS by January 31st of his…See More
Feb 7
Robert D. Bordett, CFP, CDFA posted a blog post

Social Security: How Do the New Rules Affect Divorced People?

The Association of Divorce Financial Planners held their annual conference this past October. One of the keynote speakers was Mary Beth Franklin, CFP, who is a contributing editor for Investment News. She spoke about the new Social Security rules and how to maximize benefits. Here is part of her talk relating to divorce:If married at least 10 years and currently unmarried, you may be able to collect on your ex-spouse’s work record as…See More
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